How to Avoid Separation Anxiety in Dogs: What Experts Won’t Tell You

Do you have a dog that barks, whines, or destroys things when you leave the house? Do you feel guilty or worried every time you have to go out without your furry friend? If so, you are not alone. Many dog owners struggle with separation anxiety in their pets, which can cause stress and frustration for both humans and animals.

Separation anxiety is a common behavioral problem in dogs, characterized by excessive distress and anxiety when they are separated from their owners or left alone. It can manifest in different ways, such as vocalization, chewing, digging, escaping, urinating, defecating, or even self-injury. Separation anxiety can affect any dog, regardless of breed, age, or history, but some factors can increase the risk, such as:

1. Changes in the environment, such as moving to a new house, or switching from a kennel to a home.

2. Changes in the routine, such as a different work schedule, or a new family member.

3. Traumatic events, such as being abandoned, lost, or rehomed.

4. Lack of socialization, training, or mental stimulation.

5. Genetic predisposition or temperament.

Separation anxiety can be a serious issue that can affect the quality of life of both dogs and owners. It can also lead to other problems, such as noise complaints, property damage, or injuries. Fortunately, there are ways to prevent and treat separation anxiety in dogs, and help them cope with being alone. 

In this article, we will share with you some tips and strategies to help your dog overcome separation anxiety, and enjoy a happier and healthier life.

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What are the signs of separation anxiety in dogs?

The first step to avoid separation anxiety in dogs is to recognize the signs and symptoms. Not all dogs that show some of these behaviors have separation anxiety, but they may indicate that your dog is stressed or unhappy when left alone. Some of the common signs of separation anxiety in dogs are:

Noise: They make loud or continuous sounds, like barking, howling, or whining, when you are not with them.

Damage: They destroy or damage things in the house, especially those that smell like you, such as shoes, clothes, or pillows. They may bite, scratch, or dig at doors, windows, furniture, or other objects.

Mess: They do not use the bathroom properly, even if they know how to. They may pee or poop inside the house, or in places they should not, such as your bed or couch.

Escape: They try to get out of the house or the crate, which can be dangerous or harmful for them. They may break or hurt themselves in the process.

Stress: They show physical signs of being nervous or worried when you are leaving or gone. They may pace, pant, drool, tremble, or salivate a lot.

Attachment: They follow you everywhere in the house, or act very clingy or needy when you are home. They may not leave your side or demand your attention constantly.

Disinterest: They do not eat, drink, or play when you are away, or lose their appetite or interest in general. They may ignore their food, water, or toys, or act bored or sad.

Depression: They show emotional signs of being unhappy or low when you are away or home. They may be lethargic, low energy, or lack enthusiasm for anything.

Anxiety: They show behavioral signs of being scared or nervous when you are away or home. They may have dilated pupils, ears back, tail tucked, or hide from you or others.

If you notice any of these signs in your dog, you should consult with your veterinarian or a professional dog trainer or behaviorist, to rule out any medical or physical causes, and to get a proper diagnosis and treatment plan. Separation anxiety can vary in severity, from mild to severe, and each case requires a different approach and intervention.

How to prevent separation anxiety in dogs?

The best way to avoid separation anxiety in dogs is to prevent it from developing in the first place. Prevention is especially important for puppies, young dogs, or dogs that have a history of separation anxiety or are prone to it. Here are some tips to prevent separation anxiety in dogs:

Tip 1: Socialization

Socialize your dog from an early age, and expose them to different people, animals, places, and situations, in a positive and gradual way. This will help them become more confident, adaptable, and independent, and less likely to develop fears or phobias.

Tip 2: Training

Train your dog basic obedience commands, such as sit, stay, come, and leave it, and reward them with praise, treats, or toys. This will help them learn to listen to you, and to trust and respect you as their leader. It will also give them a sense of security and structure, and make them easier to manage and control.

Tip 3: Exercise

Provide your dog with enough physical exercise and mental stimulation, according to their breed, age, and energy level. This will help them burn off excess energy, reduce boredom, and relieve stress and anxiety. You can take your dog for walks, runs, hikes, or bike rides, play fetch, tug, or hide and seek, or enroll them in agility, obedience, or other dog sports. You can also provide them with interactive toys, puzzles, or games, that challenge their intelligence and keep them entertained.

Tip 4: Routine

Establish a regular routine for your dog, and stick to it as much as possible. This will help them know what to expect, and when to expect it, and reduce their anxiety and confusion. You should have a consistent schedule for feeding, walking, playing, training, and sleeping, and try to avoid sudden changes or disruptions.

Tip 5: Teach

Teach your dog to be alone, and to enjoy their own company. This is one of the most important skills for any dog, and especially for those that suffer from separation anxiety. You should start this process as soon as you bring your dog home, and gradually increase the duration and frequency of the alone time. You can use a crate, a playpen, a baby gate, or a separate room, to create a safe and comfortable space for your dog, where they can relax and rest. 

You should also provide them with some toys, chews, or treats, that they can enjoy while you are away. You should never use the crate or the space as a punishment, or force your dog into it, but rather make it a positive and rewarding experience. You should also avoid making a big fuss when you leave or when you come back, and act calmly and casually, to avoid triggering your dog's anxiety.

How to treat separation anxiety in dogs?

If your dog already has separation anxiety, you should not despair. There are ways to treat it, and help your dog overcome their fear and anxiety of being alone. However, you should be patient, consistent, and realistic, and understand that this is a long-term process, that may take weeks or months, depending on the severity of the case. You should also seek professional help, if needed, and follow their advice and guidance. Here are some steps to treat separation anxiety in dogs:

Step 1: Identify and eliminate the triggers of your dog's anxiety 

These are the cues or signals that your dog associates with your departure, and that cause them to panic. They can be things like grabbing your keys, putting on your shoes, or turning off the lights. You should try to desensitize your dog to these triggers, by exposing them to them repeatedly, without leaving, until they lose their meaning and power. For example, you can pick up your keys and put them down, or put on your shoes and sit on the couch, several times a day, until your dog stops reacting to them.

Step 2: Implement a counterconditioning program for your dog 

This is a process that involves changing your dog's emotional response to being alone, from negative to positive. You can do this by associating your departure with something good, such as a special treat, toy, or chew, that your dog only gets when you leave, and that you take away when you come back. This way, your dog will learn to associate being alone with something pleasant, and will look forward to it, rather than dread it.

Step 3: Gradually increase the duration of your absences 

This is a crucial step, that requires careful planning and execution. You should start with very short absences, such as a few seconds or minutes, and only increase them when your dog shows no signs of anxiety or distress. 

You should also vary the length and timing of your absences, to avoid creating a predictable pattern. You can use a camera, a monitor, or a neighbor, to check on your dog's behavior and progress, and adjust accordingly. You should never leave your dog alone for longer than they can handle, or push them beyond their comfort zone, as this can backfire and worsen their anxiety.

Step 4: Consider using medication or natural remedies for your dog 

In some cases, your dog may need some extra help to cope with their anxiety, and to make the training process easier and more effective. You should consult with your veterinarian, and discuss the options and risks of using medication or natural remedies for your dog. 

Some of the common medications used for separation anxiety in dogs are antidepressants, such as fluoxetine or clomipramine, or anti-anxiety drugs, such as alprazolam or diazepam. Some of the natural remedies used for separation anxiety in dogs are pheromones, such as Adaptil or Sentry, or supplements, such as Zylkene or L-Theanine. 

You should always follow your veterinarian's instructions, and monitor your dog's reaction and side effects, if any.

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Conclusion

Separation anxiety is a common and challenging problem in dogs, that can affect their well-being and happiness, as well as yours. However, it is not a hopeless situation, and there are ways to prevent and treat it, and help your dog overcome their fear and anxiety of being alone. By following the tips and strategies we shared with you in this article, you can help your dog become more confident, independent, and relaxed, and enjoy a better and healthier relationship with them.

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FAQ

Here are some frequently asked questions and answers about separation anxiety in dogs, and how to avoid it.

Q: What causes separation anxiety in dogs?

A: Separation anxiety in dogs is not fully understood, and there may be multiple factors involved, such as genetics, personality, environment, history, or stress. Some of the possible causes of separation anxiety in dogs are:

1. Changes in the environment, such as moving to a new house, or switching from a kennel to a home.

2. Changes in the routine, such as a different work schedule, or a new family member.

3. Traumatic events, such as being abandoned, lost, or rehomed.

4. Lack of socialization, training, or mental stimulation.

5. Genetic predisposition or temperament.

Q: How can I tell if my dog has separation anxiety?

A: The signs and symptoms of separation anxiety in dogs can vary, depending on the severity and the individual dog. Some of the common signs of separation anxiety in dogs are:

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Noise: Your dog makes loud or sad sounds, like barking, howling, or whining, when you are not with them or when you go out.

Damage: Your dog bites, scratches, or digs at things in the house, especially things that smell like you, like shoes, clothes, or pillows.

Mess: Your dog pees or poops inside the house, even if they know how to go outside, or in places they should not, like your bed or couch.

Escape: Your dog tries to get out of the house or the crate, which can hurt them or cause trouble.

Stress: Your dog moves, breathes, drools, shakes, or spits a lot when you are getting ready to leave or when you are gone.

Attachment: Your dog follows you everywhere in the house, or wants your attention all the time when you are home.

Disinterest: Your dog does not eat, drink, or play when you are away, or does not seem to enjoy anything anymore.

Sadness: Your dog is tired, slow, or bored most of the time.

Fear: Your dog looks scared, with big eyes, flat ears, low tail, or hiding.

If you notice any of these signs in your dog, you should consult with your veterinarian or a professional dog trainer or behaviorist, to rule out any medical or physical causes, and to get a proper diagnosis and treatment plan.

Q: How can I help my dog with separation anxiety?

A: There are several ways to help your dog with separation anxiety, and to make them more comfortable and relaxed when they are alone. Some of the steps you can take are:

Remove the triggers: Identify and eliminate the triggers of your dog's anxiety, by desensitizing them to the cues or signals that they associate with your departure, such as grabbing your keys, putting on your shoes, or turning off the lights.

Reward the behavior: Implement a counterconditioning program for your dog, by associating your departure with something good, such as a special treat, toy, or chew, that your dog only gets when you leave, and that you take away when you come back.

Increase the time: Gradually increase the duration of your absences, by starting with very short absences, such as a few seconds or minutes, and only increasing them when your dog shows no signs of anxiety or distress. You should also vary the length and timing of your absences, to avoid creating a predictable pattern.

Consult the vet: Consider using medication or natural remedies for your dog, in consultation with your veterinarian, to help them cope with their anxiety, and to make the training process easier and more effective. Some of the common medications used for separation anxiety in dogs are antidepressants, such as fluoxetine or clomipramine, or anti-anxiety drugs, such as alprazolam or diazepam. Some of the natural remedies used for separation anxiety in dogs are pheromones, such as Adaptil or Sentry, or supplements, such as Zylkene or L-Theanine.

Exercise and stimulate: Provide your dog with enough physical exercise and mental stimulation, according to their breed, age, and energy level, to help them burn off excess energy, reduce boredom, and relieve stress and anxiety.

Follow a routine: Establish a regular routine for your dog, and stick to it as much as possible, to help them know what to expect, and when to expect it, and reduce their anxiety and confusion.

Create a safe space: Teach your dog to be alone, and to enjoy their own company, by creating a safe and comfortable space for them, where they can relax and rest, and by providing them with some toys, chews, or treats, that they can enjoy while you are away.

Act normally: Avoid making a big fuss when you leave or when you come back, and act calmly and casually, to avoid triggering your dog's anxiety.

Q: How long does it take to cure separation anxiety in dogs?

A: The time it takes to cure separation anxiety in dogs depends on several factors, such as the severity of the case, the individual dog, the owner's commitment, and the effectiveness of the treatment. There is no one-size-fits-all answer, and each case is different. However, some general guidelines are:

For mild cases: Your dog may feel less anxious when you leave if you train and manage them well. This may take a few weeks or months.

For moderate cases: Your dog may need some help from a professional trainer or vet. They may also benefit from some medicine or natural products. This may take several months or a year.

For severe cases: Your dog may have a very hard time being alone. You may need to work with a specialist and give them medicine or natural products. This may take more than a year.

The key to curing separation anxiety in dogs is to be patient, consistent, and realistic, and to follow the advice and guidance of your veterinarian or a professional dog trainer or behaviorist. You should also monitor your dog's progress and behavior, and adjust the treatment accordingly. You should never rush the process, or push your dog beyond their comfort zone, as this can backfire and worsen their anxiety.